Author: Tania Arciniega was a full-time MBA student (Class of 2025) at NYU Stern, where she was VP of Knowledge Management for the Entertainment Media and Sports Association, VP of Blocks for Stern Student Government, a Fellow of the Consortium for Graduate Study in Management and a Leadership Accelerator Scholar. With five years at Microsoft as a Product Marketing Manager, Tania has led global AI thought leadership and digital marketing campaigns, developed impactful brand strategies, and streamlined processes across various teams. Post-graduation she is going into Fintech, driven by her passion for innovation.
There has been an update to the status of your application. I read those words for far longer than I’d care to admit before finally working up the courage to log in and see what the update was. But let me take you back a little further before I get back to that.
When I was evaluating MBA programs, a mentor of mine told me to apply to programs that would be a good fit for me, not just the ones that looked good on paper. It just so happened that that piece of advice had me doubling back to Stern. A year before I started applying I talked to current students, got their opinions of the program and their favorite parts. After three of those conversations, I knew Stern was going to be my MBA program. I just needed to get in.
I loved the focus on experiential learning, the various international opportunities, and of course the rankings didn’t hurt. Once I decided that Stern was my top choice, I worked tirelessly for a year prepping for the GMAT, getting my transcripts in order, brushing up my resume, lining up my recommenders so when Round 1 applications opened, I had everything ready to submit immediately.
Months went by and despite receiving acceptance into other great MBA programs, I was still waiting to hear from the program I was most excited about. Then I finally got the email: There has been an update to the status of your application. I took a deep breath, and clicked the link taking me to my application portal. As I opened the update, my heart stopped: “Waitlist”. I was expecting to either be crushed or elated…not in a state of limbo. Then my brain reengaged and I said to myself, “The waitlist is not a no.”
This was the moment I decided to treat the waitlist as an opportunity. Stern may not have been sure about me just yet, but I was. Now it was my time to prove it. The first thing I did was accept my spot on the waitlist and then I read through the document the Admissions team provided with tips for waitlisted applicants and I completed every item that I could. Stern gave me an opportunity to show them that I wanted this, and I took it. I wrote another essay, I took yet another exam, I got another recommendation.
You might be wondering, weren’t you exhausted? How did you have the time/energy to go through these items? The answer is yes, I was exhausted. I was working full time, and studying for the GMAT. Again. I felt guilty for asking yet another colleague for a recommendation. I attended one Stern admissions event a month after receiving my waitlist decision. It would have been so easy for me to do nothing and just wait and hope the Admissions Committee would review my application again and decide I was deserving of admission. But instead I thought, ”how many people on this waitlist are willing to do everything on that list to get in?” If the admissions committee gave me a list of recommendations to help my application, well then that just became my to do list.
I saw the waitlist as a mental game, much like tennis. I grew up playing tennis and my coaches told me time and time again your mindset on the court determines the game. I approached the waitlist the same. Each person on the waitlist decides how much energy they want to put in. This was a game I did not want to lose because Stern was my top choice for my MBA. I wanted to prove my resilience, my commitment and my passion to attend Stern.
Now that I’m graduating in May, you could say that my persistence paid off. I got off the waitlist! I showed up at admitted students weekend bright eyed, and enthusiastic. I made lifelong friends that weekend, who are also graduating from Stern with me this year. Looking back, I’m glad I didn’t simply sit back and wait. I’m grateful to the admissions committee for seeing the effort and energy I put into my application and giving me a chance. But I will say, if things hadn’t gone my way, at least I would have been able to tell myself that I did everything I could to get in.
Since attending Stern, I’ve talked to a lot of students who have been on the waitlist about my experience. I give them all the same advice I gave myself back then: although it may not be the news you want to hear, remember, the waitlist is not a no.
The waitlist is an opportunity for you to see what you truly want. I went above and beyond for this program and I’m glad I did.